Best Man's Duties

Posted on 16.01.2024

Being a best man is a great honor and responsibility. It's your job to help your friend celebrate his big day and make sure everything goes off without a hitch. But what exactly does being a best man entail? 


The traditional duties of a best man

• Being the groom's right-hand man on the wedding day. This includes helping him get ready, walking him down the aisle, and Giving a Best Man's Speech at the reception.

Planning the bachelor party This is a chance for the groom to celebrate with his closest friends before the wedding.

• Helping the groom with wedding arrangements. This could include anything from helping him pick out a suit to being there to answer any questions he has.


The modern duties of a best man

The modern duties of a best man are a bit more flexible. You're still expected to be there for your friend on his big day, but you can also get creative and add your own personal touch. Here are a few ideas:

• Create a wedding website or blog. This is a great way to keep guests updated on the wedding plans and share photos and videos.

• Write a song or poem for the bride. This is a personal and thoughtful way to express your love for your friend and his new wife.

• Plan a surprise for the couple. This could be anything from a romantic dinner to a weekend getaway.

• Design T-shirts for a Bachelor Party. This is a great opportunity to joke, introduce a breath of freshness and enjoy moments together in the best company. Surprise your friends with your creativity!


How to be a great best man

The most important thing is to be there for your friend and support him on his big day. Be a good listener, offer your help, and be there to celebrate with him. Here are a few tips to help you be a great best man:

• Be prepared. The more prepared you are, the less stressed you'll be on the day of the wedding. Make a list of all the tasks you need to complete and start working on them early.

• Be flexible. Things don't always go according to plan, so be prepared to roll with the punches.

• Have fun! This is a special day for your friend, so make sure you enjoy it too.


Additional tips

• Choose a speech topic that is meaningful to the groom and the bride.

• Practice your speech in front of a mirror or a friend.

• Be yourself and have fun!

Here are some additional duties that you may be asked to perform as a best man:

• Help the groom with his wedding attire. This could include picking out a suit, tie, or shoes.

• Escort the bride's parents to the wedding.

• Help the groom with his wedding vows.

• Organise transportation for the wedding party.

• Help the groom with his wedding gifts.

• Help the groom with his honeymoon plans.

No matter what your duties are, it is important to remember that your main job as a best man is to support your friend on his big day. Be there for him, help him celebrate, and make sure he has a wedding day that he will never forget.

Rozalia Kamińska

Bachelor Party & Stag Do Expert

Stag party specialist since 2009, Rozalia has organised over 5,200 bachelor parties and stag weekends across Poland and Eastern Europe. She personally tests every activity, nightclub, bar, and adventure experience to guarantee only the highest-quality options for your group.